men

Yes..my new post is about men..again. Let me remind you guys that I'm just talking in general..alright? So no hard feeling.

Just now I dunno why all of sudden I was wondering what goes on men's mind after having a huge fight/argument or breakup. Seriously I don't even know why..so please don't bother to ask me okie..? I even ask the same question to my boyfriend. Anyway back to topic, I was wondering do they think about what happen, what went wrong? Do they ever feel regret? I always think that they don't even bother to think about all this, because most of the guys I know don't bother about all this. They seems okie right after the fight or breakup..they have this "everyting is okie" look on their face. Deep down inside, are they okie or do they feel hurt as well?

One more thing that I do noticed is right after the fight they don't even wanna talk about it. Why? Don't they wanna make things work? Don't they wanna share how they actually feels? From my opinion, I think they should let it out and every problem should be solve..right? I mean, if you wanna make it work, u have to talk to each other and figure out what causes the problem and fix it. But I do know some problem bukan senang nak settle, but you just have to try..kan?

Men.....why do they have to be soooo complicated.

reasons why guys always cheat

A friend of mine told me that her boyfriend is having an affair. I'm not surprise because he's quite handsome for a typical Malay guy. Well, she's not the only person having this kind of problem, banyak lagi perempuan ada masalah macam ni (including myself..with my ex). Whether a man is good looking or not, I just don't understand, why would they having an affair? Ada lelaki untung dapat girlfriend yang cantik, smart, baik buruk tu tak tahu la nak cakap (u guys should know better pasal partner korang)..but as far as I know the girl is being loyal to the guy. Apa lagi yang tak cukup??? If you're not happy with your partner, just tell them straight away that you're not happy and figure it out together how to make things work..if it doesn't work jugak then breakup jela. Bagi lelaki yang dapat girlfriend yang perangai dia macam haram tu, tak payah la cakap banyak..cari je yang lain..banyak lagi bunga kat luar tu..ceywahh!! =p

If you guys notice..cheating seems a new trend..it seems like if you don't do it, it ain't cool. Here are the possible reasons why guys always cheat....

1. They are not ready to have commitments.
2. They no longer feel satisfied/stimulated in their current relationship and are too cowardly to end the relationship
3. They like various sex partners.
4. They crave the initial excitement and illicitness of a "secret" affair.
5. Men are single-minded and don't think about the consequences of their actions.
6. Some men cheat because they think they can get by with it.
7. Some cheat because they don't take their relationships seriously.
8. Guys cheat because many of them increasingly feel powerless in a society that is giving women more rights & powers in the domestic & public spheres.
9. Men stray outside of long-term relationships to remember what it was like to be desirable and free. "Schedules" and routine destroy self image.
10. Having sex with more than one woman is an ego boost for those with low self-esteem.
11. Men cheat because they are bored in their current relationship.
12. Lack of or poor communication with the spouse/girlfriend can lead a man to cheat.
13. Other people are something new and different.
14. You have no old baggage with someone new.
15. Maybe they want something with ''no strings''
16. Different people have different likes and dislikes.