It's been 53days I haven't seen mom, dad and adik. I miss them so damn much. Only god knows. Insyaallah I will see them on this coming July or August..lambat lagi!! =(
I already started my class. Minggu ni minggu ke-2 aku start class. It was okie..so far I enjoying myself there (walaupun benci gila dengan management college..macam HARAM!!). But when I got home, I felt so lonely. My aunt and uncle went to work, so its just me alone at home. Deep down inside I feel so empty and lonely. Every single day I always look forward untuk time bertukar jadi malam pasal by that time my aunt and uncle dah balik dari kerja. This few weeks I spend my time with Jim and his family..it was fun tho. However, that makes me misses my parents and brother even more. Bila aku perhati family Jim bergurau and 'bergaduh' diorang anak-beranak it remind me of my parents and brother and it makes me sad because I miss arguing with adik, talks crap with dad, having a girls conversation with mom. I did tell Jim about how I feel..I'm glad that he will always be there for me. I'm glad that I have my aunt and uncle with me as well. Hurmm...I guess Dd fell sick last year because I left her all alone jugak kot. =( Ooowhh Dd...kesian you.
I love weekends..seriously! I have my aunt and uncle at home with me and I get the chance to spend time with Jim (and his family *wink*)
I know some people may wondering why didn't I go out with my friends..well its because they're all busy. Yes, all! Most of them are in Shah Alam & jauh dari KL..belajar and ada yang kerja. I'm looking forward to meet one of my best friend, tapi tak tahu lah lagi bila dapat jumpa because she's currently busy working. Looking forward to see you Lynn!!
Monday, February 22, 2010
7 Types of Breakups
I was browsing through the internet and I saw this interesting article about types of breakups (interesting ke??)
Actually, I was thinking since I have experience it many times before, so I wanted to know which type of breakup that I personally have gone through. Here are 7 types of breakup ranked by shortest recovery time to longest recovery time:
1- Mutual Breakup
This is as peaceful a breakup as you can have, like when the entire family agrees it's time to pull the plug on grandpa's respirator: He is freed of his misery, and the family feels a sense of relief. But it can't be that tough to recover from a mutual breakup and get back out in dating scene again.
2- The Circumstantial Breakup
A cousin of the mutual breakup, the circumstantial breakup occurs when the environment around you won't permit the relationship to continue: My family hates you. Recovery time is shortened because the other person offers an excuse that takes the focus off you weaknesses or unattractive qualities that could have caused a breakup.
3- The Ultimatum Breakup
The most common ultimatum leading to a breakup is: Ask me to marry you within the next year of I'm out here. Ultimatum breakups can be tough to get over because it's annoying that a little compromise could have prevented it. But once it's over, that pressure from the stalemate you reached in the relationship is gone, so it's quite a relief.
4- The Something Someone Said Breakup
The writer gave an example about his friend's situation which his friend broke up with his girlfriend he was dating for years, and he mentioned a conversation that occurred shortly before they broke up. They were discussing wedding rings, and she asked how much he'd spend. He simply hasn't studied the "market" so he threw a number out there: "I don't know, $5,000." She scoffed and said: "You should spend no less than $20,000." He told the writer after she said that, he couldn't think of her the same way anymore. In fact, it put a figurative "X" over her image in his eyes. They eventually broke up, and this conversation was the springboard. This type of breakup is painful because you wish you could take something you said or did back.
5- The I've Been Cheating
Whether you find out from them or some other way, it's the ultimate betrayal when they are cheating on you. You can get over it because you dismiss this person as a cheating jerk, but you still feel stupid and you might spend several months envisioning the cheating or trying to regain faith in the opposite gender.
6- The First Love Breakup
The First Love breakup is one of the toughest to overcome. Some say you never get over it. This breakup teaches us that the world is a bigger place than we thought. There are more people to meet, there are places to go. Things just can't stay the same as they once were.
7- The Blind Side
This is traumatic because it comes out of nowhere. The blind sider may have been thinking about it for months, and they conceal their intentions, then drop the bomb while everything seems to be going well. In fact, the couple may have spent time together the night before, but the blind sider did so out of obligation.
Actually, I was thinking since I have experience it many times before, so I wanted to know which type of breakup that I personally have gone through. Here are 7 types of breakup ranked by shortest recovery time to longest recovery time:
1- Mutual Breakup
This is as peaceful a breakup as you can have, like when the entire family agrees it's time to pull the plug on grandpa's respirator: He is freed of his misery, and the family feels a sense of relief. But it can't be that tough to recover from a mutual breakup and get back out in dating scene again.
2- The Circumstantial Breakup
A cousin of the mutual breakup, the circumstantial breakup occurs when the environment around you won't permit the relationship to continue: My family hates you. Recovery time is shortened because the other person offers an excuse that takes the focus off you weaknesses or unattractive qualities that could have caused a breakup.
3- The Ultimatum Breakup
The most common ultimatum leading to a breakup is: Ask me to marry you within the next year of I'm out here. Ultimatum breakups can be tough to get over because it's annoying that a little compromise could have prevented it. But once it's over, that pressure from the stalemate you reached in the relationship is gone, so it's quite a relief.
4- The Something Someone Said Breakup
The writer gave an example about his friend's situation which his friend broke up with his girlfriend he was dating for years, and he mentioned a conversation that occurred shortly before they broke up. They were discussing wedding rings, and she asked how much he'd spend. He simply hasn't studied the "market" so he threw a number out there: "I don't know, $5,000." She scoffed and said: "You should spend no less than $20,000." He told the writer after she said that, he couldn't think of her the same way anymore. In fact, it put a figurative "X" over her image in his eyes. They eventually broke up, and this conversation was the springboard. This type of breakup is painful because you wish you could take something you said or did back.
5- The I've Been Cheating
Whether you find out from them or some other way, it's the ultimate betrayal when they are cheating on you. You can get over it because you dismiss this person as a cheating jerk, but you still feel stupid and you might spend several months envisioning the cheating or trying to regain faith in the opposite gender.
6- The First Love Breakup
The First Love breakup is one of the toughest to overcome. Some say you never get over it. This breakup teaches us that the world is a bigger place than we thought. There are more people to meet, there are places to go. Things just can't stay the same as they once were.
7- The Blind Side
This is traumatic because it comes out of nowhere. The blind sider may have been thinking about it for months, and they conceal their intentions, then drop the bomb while everything seems to be going well. In fact, the couple may have spent time together the night before, but the blind sider did so out of obligation.
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